Can Men Be Friends With Their Ex Girlfriends - Find Out
Just remember those wonderful years, that you spend together with your
beloved! Wow! Those amazing moments, which you still cherish and those
fascinating memories, which bring a smile on your face, the list is
indeed dazzling. Now just come back to the reality, as we are talking
about the present scenario and now there is a word “ex” been placed as a
‘prefix’ before your beloved.
A relationship becomes a bit complicated, with the introduction of ‘ex’
in it. So, have you heard of men friends with ex-girlfriends?
This question is very much intriguing and the answer is also equally
thought-provoking. Most of the men would agree with me, if I say that
there is absolutely no problem in being friends with their
ex-girlfriends, on the other hand, some men would think “Am I an idiot
to be a friend with an ex?”
Hey! Hey! Hey! It is getting complicated, so just wait for a second and
do a bit of introspection! Well! You got the answer.
No doubt, there is no problem in being “just- friends” with those who
once used to be “more than just-friends” with you and just after giving
this complicated statement, some thing strange is going on in my heart
(Is that a symptom of a heart attack?)
Anyways! Opinions may differ but personally I believe that if a
relationship is over, then it is quite difficult as well as not
recommended to drag further the burden of this not-so-lovely
relationship (and being a man I expect a huge support of my fellows).
If something is not working, then the need is to further strengthen it.
The reduction of a lovely relationship to just a friendship, is not a
cup of tea of men, like me. Well! Yes you got it right, I myself once
tried to be friend with one of my “ex” and I ended up saying “I love you
please, come back”, which resulted in a sort of tsunami in my married
life. My wife was about to divorce me and please don’t ask about my ex’s
reaction after hearing those hilariously stupid words.
At the same time, I know some men who are friends with their ex
girlfriend (I wonder if they have a heart of gold or a heart of stone),
who look quite happy from outside but who know about those emotions,
that are still hidden somewhere, like a sleeping but dangerous volcano.
I might be a bit one-sided in my opinion, but I strongly believe that
men can never be just friends with their super-hot ex girlfriends, as
after all, we all have a heart, that is known as a storehouse of
beautiful feelings of the past. So, a man who says that he can be just a
true friend for his ex girlfriend, is either lying or just fond of
getting heart attacks.